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Mamata Di, you fail us Bengalis

Last Updated: Tuesday, October 16, 2012, 18:04
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Long back, when the West Bengal election campaign was at its peak, one of my Kolkata friends, after having a long debate on why Bengal needs a change had snubbed me - a probashi (a term used for a Bengali living outside Bengal) - for being ‘judgemental’ about Mamata Banerjee. He had said that since I did not live in the state, I did not have the right to pass a judgement on her and her maverick ways. Since I wasn’t pro-CPM or Trinamool and had never stayed in Kolkata, he said, I wouldn’t know why there was a change needed after 35 long years.

That was two years back. When Mamata Banerjee came to power, lot of hope and aspiration were attached to this one lady, who my fellow Bengalis felt would bring some change. They were so ‘desperate’ to see the state ‘reformed’ that they were ready to ignore and look through the woman’s irrational behaviour and obscure notions on society. And for their sake and as a Bengali, I genuinely hoped that the woman would give Bengal all it deserved and much more.

But instead of heralding a new era, the lady kept making- to put it politely- faux pas, one after the other. From calling an innocent college girl a ‘Maoist cadre’ to getting a professor arrested for having a sense of humour to even getting a poor farmer arrested for asking questions concerning his well-being – the lady, time and again, proved that with power, her maverick ways had just got more leverage. And her supporters still quietly stood by her.

When increasing number of infant deaths were
reported across the state, the paranoid Chief Minister called it a big ‘conspiracy of the Left’. And when the infamous Park Street rape case happened, she questioned the victim’s intent and her character instead of showing solidarity with the latter.

She was criticised widely in the media in each of the cases and the journalists were all safely labelled as biased and negative, out to ‘malign her reputation’. And instead of learning from her mistakes and recovering from the now much acclaimed ‘foot-in-mouth’ disease, the lady continues to make blanket statements, which continue to appal even those who had once supported her.

When the first few incidents of ‘Mamataism’ came out- I scoffed, smirked and laughed at those who had once vehemently tried to convince me that Mamata was the ‘answer’ to all of Bengal’s problems. In the next few, I cringed - reason, that I would be associated with her by the virtue of being a Bengali. What if the entire country starts believing that all Bengalis are like her, I wondered.

But the latest statement by Ms. Banerjee on the issue of rape has left me, the non-Mamata-supporter, embarrassed and ashamed. Commenting on some recent rape incidents in the state, Mamata made a sweeping statement that rape cases are on a rise in the country because men and women interact with each other more freely now.

“Earlier if men and women would hold hands, they would get caught by parents and reprimanded but now everything is so open. It`s like an open market with open options,” she further added. When, a few days before, a Haryana minister had commented that “90% rape cases are consensual”, I wasn’t surprised. After all, what would you expect from a man whose state is famous for crime against women and where the term ‘gender-equality’ does not even exist? But when a Bengali and that too, a woman, passes such bizarre reasoning for the increase in crime rate against women in the state, it leaves the common man a bit shocked.

I have always been proud of my community’s liberal ways. The kind of equality that women enjoy in our community, they don’t in most states. Bengalis have been known to be liberal and usually don’t succumb to such archaic societal norms where men and women are treated differently. So when the Chief Minister of that state makes such a statement, it raises questions about the society and whether it is going two steps backward instead of going forward.

Mamata Didi has not only failed her community by passing such archaic statements, but has also, as a woman, failed to stand up for the weaker sex. The lady, who has always been the voice of the poor and the underprivileged, perhaps did not find the issue of defending and protecting the fairer sex a cause worthy of her attention. It is also amusing that the when you are heading a government which consists of male ministers, and where you have to interact with them ‘freely’, such statements are passed.

Mamata was voted for poriborton (change). She was brought in to stop all the absurdities of the Left. But her regressive and patriarchal comments just make her ‘one of them’. Earlier on, whenever the Left was questioned about such incidents, their answers were similar to what Mamata’s notions on sexuality are. In fact, Mamata and her regimental rule over the state seem like an extension of the party she took over from. So where exactly is the poriborton?

Male politicians making regressive statements on rape can be scoffed at but what does one do when a woman reflects a patriarchal mindset? Being a woman and being at a position that she is in, Mamata should take concrete action against such crimes instead of trivializing the whole issue time and again.

An entire community has given her chance of occupying a post that she has dreamt of ever since she stepped into politics. They have been patient, forgiving and have rested their hopes heavily on her government. And each time she goes her ‘eccentric’ way, she fails an entire community and leaves them red-faced.

It’s time to get your act right, Didi. For the sake of those who got you to power.
(The views expressed by the author are personal)
santosh - vijayawada
i am not a bengali .. but have many bengali frnds ..they are osm ppl .. it is surprising to see them vote this egoistic prick to power .. i wouldn mind if she confined her non sense to bengal but this woman meddles with every nationlistic decision .. railways, lokpal, reforms .. i sincerely hope she slips on her aam admi ``slippers`` and breaks her head .. and dies.
i am sorry let her pull her crap in bengal for voting her. not the whole country .. we didn vote for her
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m v rangaraajan - Delhi
a very clear narrative of the happenings which brings sadness. while the indian politicians aspire to be treated on par with western and developed nations` politicians they do not want the people of india, both men and women, to be treated on par with other developed nations. nor they stick to tradition and attempt to protect the honour of a woman. it is like taking everything advantageous to them from all the worlds and leaving the people to despair. though they, men and women, are physically different in the mindset and behaviour both are same. in fact, plenty of women go mad with power and commit atrocities on women. at the same time indian men should raise their level of valour and should attempt to protect women from any kind of attack. after all there is no man without a woman giving birth, feeding and nurturing and without the affection of sisters.
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ranjan - kol
i totally agree with u .i would also like to add on the recent comment which the bengal cm made on the congress losing support within 6 months time. forget about other parties and think about your own existence .
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anasuya - new delhi
its funny how in the same sentence the writer talks about mamata and her lack of women`s emancipation, she refers to women as the `weaker` and `fairer` sex.
i think the author suffers from `foot-in-mouth` syndrome with her sweeping statements, anti-women (by which i mean patriarchal) archaic vocab, essentialistic remarks about different communities. shomini, you`ve just undercut your spiel on women`s lib and the `liberalism of bengali`s` by your piece. are you trying to start communal riots? are you trying to breed intolerance and hatered and unnecessary competition between communities and are you trying to regress gender discourse by echoing patriarchal vocabulary used to describe women?



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skk - bangalore
mamta banerjee is only good for leading anti govt activities
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G M Patra - USA
she is not goof for any thing other than shouting at every body. in early days she started behaving as if she was the king-maker for the country.
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... - New Delhi
``i have always been proud of my community’s liberal ways. the kind of equality that women enjoy in our community, they don’t in most states. bengalis have been known to be liberal and usually don’t succumb to such archaic societal norms where men and women are treated differently. so when the chief minister of that state makes such a statement, it raises questions about the society and whether it is going two steps backward instead of going forward.``

only someone without any sociological insight into the state of bengal would make such sweeping, genralised statements.
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AMARTYA SARKAR - Bhubaneswar
perhaps, the author is a staunch supporter of the erstwhile cpm lead government. how can he forget the crimes during those era. bengal has recorded lesser crimes, lesser bandhs in tmc regime. here is a summary of crime facts from 1977 - 2003 -
(i)murder—2284
(ii)political murder—26
(iii) rape—2516
(iv) outraging modesty—3013
(v) torture on brides—17,571
(vi) death/murder due to maoist activities—134
(source: dainik stateamsn, kolkata, july 16, 2010)
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Roy - Kolkata
we need fast, stringent, capital punishment for crimes like murder and rape. unless there is fear in the mind of offender for death, these crimes will go on and there will be no end of it.
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Needhi - New delhi
i so agree with u shomini di! `poriborton didi` really seems to be hell bent on getting some change, but it is unfortunate enough for us, that the change is to take our society backwards.this is the irony of her intention to bring in change i suppose.
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BALDEVINDER CHEEMA - CHANDIGARH
India does seem to see that Pakistan leaders, that they have been and are talking to, , do NOT represent the peoples of Pakistan. Pakistani Army, and a small section of selfish politicians have high jacked the whole country, in the name of Islam. They have been and are always winning support of their people by high lighting threats to the Country from India. They can never be expected to make peace with India, that would threaten their top dog status. India has to open doors to dialogue with civil society and common peoples of Pakistan, and them to liberate themselves from the clutches of the dominant Army and its cronies. India must also make efforts to win the support of USA and other world powers to close the financial and arms support that has been and is being extended by them to the Pakistan Army, that is really an army of occupation. At the same time India should live up to its democratic and secular ideals, as prescribed in our Constitution, so that peoples of Pakistan feel assured of fair and just dealings from us. Indian threat perception that they are bombarded with day in and day out from the Pakistani usurpers, needs to balanced by our actions at home and abroad.
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Punya - Delhi
good judgement and courageous statement, shomini. i support you.
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divya - delhi
totally agree with u on this!! something absurd like this coming from a woman, its a shame.
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S.K.DATTA - MALAYSIA
i totally agreed with the statement about present bengal.actually we need industrial development,cm should think to comment on sensetive issues.bengali`s are proud about their intelligence level,broadness etc.such comments by cm is no longer differentiate from others like statement by hariyana govt.status of bengal is really disheartening, there is no industrial development. cm should focus mainly on industrial development. people of bengal have brought tmc for parivartan on real sense. what parivartan we are observing just old wine in a new bottle.sincere honest drive required by the political leader to lift bengal from present position,though it is not so easy but sincere efforts will surely give positive result.waiting for such days to see!
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S Mookerjee - Kolkata
didi and her party, in their rule for the 17 months, have done a few good things. the people of the state as a whole, must thank her and her administration for the same. but at the same time a few things which she said perhaps without understanding the public reactions, particularly with regard to the series of rape incidents in the state, regarding child death, dengue disease etc. certainly did not go well with the people of the state. the horror of the previous regime in the state is still fresh in the people`s mind and obviously public in general would like to compare the performance of the current administration with that of the earlier one. unfortunately in the sectors like education, health, maintenance of law and order, development of infrastructure and industry etc. the performance of the present govt. is far from satisfactory, at least during the first 17th months of its rule. still there is time and i`m very hopeful that things would change for the better and it is the collective responsibility of didi and her colleagues in the party and govt. to be more careful in using words before public and media and also they should appear to be fair in giving good governance to the state, so that people can make clear distinction between the previous regime and the present govt. of didi and her party i.e. tmc. we do not like to see the image of didi tarnished in any way.
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atis - ghaziabad
if you are a senior citizen, then are you emulating dhritarastra or duhshasan if young?
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shuvendu - Faridabad
i also agree with shomini.

all you explained is right. i want few things to questions to the people of social society. if they believe they belongs to social society and jumped to motivate people to elect mamta banerjee as a next cm. have to come in front and publically say that they are wrong. and it is not we expect, previous govt is better than this.

on the other hand if i see left parties never made a statement for these people (social activist) that come and join us or made campaign for them.

shuvendu
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basu - Bangalore
lady, pack your bags and run,, ``poriborton didi`` is sending police to catch you for this article
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Male Alone - Delhi, Rohini, Sec-IX
excellent composition, makes a very good reading but doesnt make any difference to average bengalis @ calcutta. they wont even read this piece, now this is puja time. from where the lady got the notion that average bengalis are cultured,open minded, tolerant and intellectually progressive (materially they are not and it is widely known)- i definitely wonder. the bengalis are exactly like mamata didi and mamata didi is damn right when she says ``ami tomaderi lok`` she is right and she knew it. in other words, ms shomini, dont bother yourself much. the bengalis deserved mamata didi and they got her.
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Anon - London
thank god that you just wonder and not conclude because mate i`m afraid you`re so wrong. rather i, on the other hand, wonder how and on what basis you formed an opinion that bengalis are not cultured, open minded, tolerant blah blah. unfortunately, there are no wide options available, hence for the time being mamata or cpm are the only bet. bengalis just gave her an opportunity like any other indians do in exercising their constitutional right of electing a leader and not because they deserve it or anything. if the concerned person is not satisfactory, fair enough maybe somebody else.
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m m khan - lucknow u p india
j agry with ur opinions
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Prasad - Hyderabad
what mamata banerjee said is 100% right on the current trends going on with the women. they are having open options and everything is open.

please concentrate on the other side effects also and not just rape because of their westernization.

families are breaking. daughter-in-laws are playing(torture & harassment)with old mother-in-law & father-in-laws. if the old age people said anything to her they dil can file domestic violence case against them. if dil even kicks the old aged in-laws then there is no remedy.

modern westernized wives in the name freedom not at all valuing the feelings of husbands. they are misusing 498a , crpc125 & other hma laws which are meant for real sufferers.

divorce rate is very high because of this modernization.

india is spoiling its valuable heritage and traditions in the so called women liberation which making them bies.
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Sadhak - Kolakta
shomini i totally agree with you. west bengal future is hopeless as i see it now.
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Binoy - Goa
You are very right. Reservation in promotion will only mean INCOMPETENT PEOPLE manning Government posts and misguiding Politicians who rely on them, or allow politicians to bend them to their whims and fancies.
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D P. Singh - Mohali
I agree.with you.Moreover reservatin in permotion is discrimintory,demoralising,unjustified and. permotes inefficiency
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Tathagata - Exeter, UK
i completely agree with your opinions. i was in bengal during the elections, and from the apparent anti-cpm upheaval it was quite clear to me (from the viewpoint of someone who hardly stays in the state)that people are more keen on voting cpm out rather than electing mamata in. hers was the only anti-cpm image that people of bengal had in their psyche and to be really honest i kept away from voting because i knew it was always a choice between a rock and a hard place! there cannot be any justification towards rape...it is a blatant crime and should be dealt with as heavily as possible...but the key to the problem doesn`t lie in free mixing between the two sexes...or the often resorted to (and outrageously hilarious) excuse about ``girls wearing provocative dresses``!!! i think the key to problems of bengal and the present ``rulers`` of bengal lay in a complete refusal of self assessment...it is high time to be introspective!!!
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