The lady who stopped smiling
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The lady who stopped smiling

Last Updated: Friday, December 26, 2008, 21:26
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“When bad men combine, the good must associate; else they will fall one by one, an unpitied sacrifice in a contemptible struggle” - Edmund Burke

No, she is not screaming like those on TV channels, she is not writing condemning articles, she is not actively participating in demonstrations. She went mum on 26/11 - the day it was Mumbai’s turn to bathe in blood after Ahmedabad, Bangalore, Delhi and Guwahati. She is known to be living, but has no life in her and she has stopped smiling, even vaguely.

A certain haze shrouds her - bygone days come in flashes – she tries to find her daughter in discarded jeans, in those sweet smelling handkerchiefs, in her pictures, in those awards, in hundreds and thousands of little things. But her daughter is dead – she died in Mumbai terror attacks at the Taj Hotel, where she had joined as a trainee just a month back. Her husband says that their daughter is dead, but how can she reconcile with this terrifying fact? So,
she has taken refuge in silence. Occasionally, she sheds silent tears as she goes about the house, still looking for her little daughter, swinging between sanity and insanity.

I know her personally. But, there are many, not known to me, who have died a similar death with their loved ones. They don’t care about what is being said or done, simply because they have lost the will to live. Terrorists did their job well. They not just killed a few hundred people, but also thousands associated with them. They damaged psyches and drank the life blood of faith, peace and love. Don’t you think the gory images of terror – spilled blood, mutilated bodies, scarred buildings, tear stained faces killed a part of us?

We may be trying to take measures to be secured against future terror attacks but what about restoring the emotional quotient of these people, who have lost the will to live? We may have fought the evil physically, but the emotional fight needs yet to be undertaken. Some paltry compensation announced in the name of the dead is too dwarf an attempt at consolation and in such circumstances nearly sounds disgusting.

Whenever I see my acquaintance, such questions plagued me - What will make her smile again? What will bring her to her senses? What will make her live?

And I get my answer in a Russian fairytale – ‘The princess who never smiled’ or ‘The Unsmiling Tsarevna’. It is the story of a sad heiress of a Tzar, who promised to give her and his throne to a person, who could make the Tsarevna laugh. An honest farmer came and his innocent antics made the Tsarevna laugh. Clearly, the honest farmer’s antics are symbolic of art and entertainment that can nourish soul.

Art is the root of a society. It nourishes mankind. In these turbulent times, when terror wars are being fought in the name of religion, the only bright spot that remains is art, and one can never underestimate its power. Sound of sweet symphony can heal wounds, literary works can sustain soul, paintings can soothe and our own Bollywood can do wonders. Bollywood is almost a religion in India. It can act as a befitting answer to terrorists’ flawed conception of ‘Islam’.

Politicians are hated, administration condemned, but actors are worshipped in India. Amitabh, Shah Rukh, Rajinikanth, just to name a few, can make Mumbai smile again. If all the artists and actors join hands, they can take ‘art against terrorism’ to the highest level. They can enable every being to participate in a movement.

So, here is an appeal to the art and entertainment fraternity to create, compose and paint against terrorism. If the terrorists have bombs, artists have musical instruments; if terrorists have guns, artists have pen; if the terrorists scheme, artists can compose; if terrorists can create tragedies, artists can create comedies; if terrorists can terrorise, artists can empathise.

Blogging, condemning, demonstrating against terrorism is effective only to a certain extent, but creating art against terrorism would kill the fanatic in person and spirit.

Perhaps, this would bring back the smile on her lips and she would start living once again, in spite of her great loss.
(The views expressed by the author are personal)
Gauri - Hissar
LOL. i am dying to see my former crush (vivek oberoi) in a cute avatar. god help him and all the other fashion victims. ash needs help too! u forgot himesh though... but let us not even count him as a celeb
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Shweta Malhotra - chandigarh
so glad that Aishwarya has made it to worst dressers here. She is nothing but a pretty face.
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Priya - Bangalore
Govinda is not Chi Chi but Chee Chee!
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pooja - noida
Simply an awesome article. I really enjoyed it. This gosip queen really knows her stuff well. Keep it up and let us be updated about fasion.
Thanks fashion guru. Good job.
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Shri - HYD
@Jim, Noida: Yes ART can take on Terrorism... It is `Hatred` that is seeded deep inside these terrorists heart, cause of which they do such extreme acts... If ART can seed Love and Respect.. All will Stop!
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Anand Baskaran - Bangalore
Firstly, great article, Shivangi very well written. But I am skeptical about your view that Art is the solution, the healer, the redeemer that said, I will not be able to pen a reply if you were to ask me ``What do you suggest then, if not art?`` The closest I can think of, is ``Social Support``- loads of it.
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Jim - NOIDA
Can ART really take on Taliban and Al Qaida.
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deepak nagpal - new delhi
a very nice write-up...we need to see things from different angles in times like these...violence is not always the answer to violence...let`s hope the ways suggested by the writers are taken up to batytle the war of idelogies...a refreshing voice
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Anonymous - India
Wow! Lets keep producing `ART` and lets keep expecting that Amitabh, Shah Rukh &amp Rajnikant will bring smiles on everyone`s face! Its crap!! Boss We need to be practical and do something ourselves about Our sad government who is fooling Us.No work of Art will ever be able to fulfill the emptiness in the lives of those people who have lost their dear &amp near ones in the terror attacks. However, if We take concrete steps to combat terrorism only then can We avoid such dreadful incidents and ensure that each HINDUstani lives without any fear and wears a smile till eternity.
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Indian - hyderabad
Islam has nothing to do with voilence or terrorist activity. It teaches only love and peace and good culture.Muslims or Islam should not be blamed for any such henious crimes thats happening these activities are being done to malign Muslims image and simply hurting innocent people. I being muslim want these terrorists to be hanged till death on road signals.
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reshmi kumari - jamshedpur
it is very easy to say tht she will never smile again bt it very difficult for us to join the art fight tht is quated above. everyboby agrees tht she will nt smile as before bt noboby will step out to make her laugh or smile.I m very small bt if once given a chance will sure try to make her smile. Bcoz u know tht whenever we cry god had already sent someone to make us smile.so atlast I would like to requst a mere thing to everyone tht plz dont kill the artist inside u becoz it is the only source to survive &amp make others survive. I will nt pickpoint to any politicians or actors bcoz we r thr culprit who given them higher or lower positio. so this new year smthing such happen tht brigs a smile to her face.. come pray together for her.
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B K Banati - NOIDA
A refreshingly sane voice in the din of senseless noises of killing, retribution and kalapani etc.Protection against and combating this menace is one thing and rehabilitating the victims,who are left behind and restoring smiles on their faces is another thing.Combating terrorism and protecting the citizens,though everybody`s responsibility, is essentially a function of the state.Hunting down the perpetrators and eliminating them is not difficult provided the state wishes to impose its will.Herein lies the difference between a self respecting state and a failed state. On the other hand restoring the smile on the victims is exclusively in society`s domain. Any offer of monetary compensation is, in most cases, is like adding insult to the injury.The least the state could do is to mobilize a voluntary body of psychologists and social workers to help victims get on with life. Naming Shabana and Javed and advocating their arrest, just because they happen to be muslims is revolting.Their patriotism is no less than you and I and any other Indian. My ABCD (or IBCA) friend is probably mis-informed and misled by people who are religious(!) fanatics like, if not more than the scums who perpetrate these crimes. What Amitabh,Aamir and people of their ilk can do to help is to stop glamourising violence and in turn terrorism.Amen
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Jim - Noida
She can never smile again. She will never live the life she used to. All this talk of art is fine. What u can do is to hunt down people like Baitaulah Masud, Kill Masood Azhar, Give Kalaapani to talibanis, Jaish` Al Qaeda etc. etc.. IF ART CAN REALLY DO SOMETHING THEN ONE SHOULD RE WRITE `QURAN` WHICH HAS NO MENTION JIHAD OR ANY OTHER WORD WHICH TALKS OF REVENGE> RE WRITE BIBLE WHICH NOT TALKS OF CRUSADE>
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Mona - USA
Thsi story has brought tears in my eyes. My heart goes ou to this mum. India is being too tolernat towards terrorism. We know war is not the answer but frim and strict steps to be should be taken by India to snap all ties with Pakistn be it filsm, economic, political , crickert etc. even immediatelt stop the flow of water and the gas pipe line. The pakis can carry on trade with th elik eminded countries such as bangladesh,srilanka and china. Even th epoliticians should be put before the firing line.They rae not less than the terrorusts.Anyone showing or expressing anti-India sentiments such a sshabana and javed should be immediately arrested. If Indians do not unite , nothing will be achieved. STAND UNITED INIDIANs. NOBODY IS A MARATHI MANOOS OR A NORTH INDIAN BHAIAY A, BUT WE ARE INDIANS OTHERWISE YOU WILL HAVE YOUR NEIGHBOURS SUCH AS PAKISTAN ATTACKING YOU.
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