London: Actress Kirsten Dunst, who is dating musician Jason Boesel, feels she has grown up as far as relationship are concerned.
"Getting older, you try to pick a partner you are friends with. At least that`s my experience. There obviously has to be some sort of attraction, but not the kind that will be destructive and make you crazy," a website quoted her as saying.
"I like someone who`s pretty chilled. I know my life gets hectic and it`s nice to have someone who grounds and centres me," said Dunst, who previously had relationships with rocker Johnny Borrell and actor Jake Gyllenhaal.