Which are the hidden traps of a threesome?

Threesome sounds very exciting and many guys fantasize about it, but you have to consider a few things before doing it.

So, you have finally managed to convince your partner to have a threesome and you have also found a girl who is ready to join you. So, what could go wrong? Well, more than you think. When couples, who are otherwise committed to each other, decide for such an adventure, the result can be erotic and exciting or tragic and infinitely complicated.

Threesome trap #1: You will fall in love with someone else

You can quickly develop strong feelings of affection for someone you have been intimate with, because sexual intercourse and love often go hand in hand. Maybe you think that this is mainly women`s problem and that your DNA enables you to separate sexuality from love, but once you find yourself in such a situation your reaction might be a surprise for you, too. Make sure you want to have a threesome for all the right reasons and that you are completely committed to your girlfriend. Only in this way you will see the other girl only as a beautiful sexual object and not only as a girl you could fall in love with.

Threesome trap #2: She will fall in love with you

Of course the situation can be reversed. A girl that joined you for a hot threesome can also fall in love with you and then tries to do everything to break up your relationship. You have to clearly explain to her that you don`t expect anything from her, because only in this way you will avoid unpleasant situations. Before you have a threesome, spend some time with her, observe her behavior and try to judge if she is capable of controlling her feelings.

Threesome trap #3: Jealousy

Unless your girlfriend is very confident and loves sexual adventures, there is a big possibility a threesome will make her jealous. Her mild dissatisfaction will become greater and greater until it turns into a rage. So, make sure that you pay the same amount of attention to your partner. If you know that she gets jealous if you look at another girl on the street, then a threesome is not a good idea.

Threesome trap #4: Sexual diseases and pregnancy

Threesome can turn your life upside down. One or both of you could contract any of the sexually transmitted diseases. A good reason to rethink your decision is also a possibility that a girl who joins you gets pregnant and has your baby. Of course you want to avoid all of these risks, so make sure you choose a girl without a suspicious sexual past and talk about the use of contraception before having a threesome.

Threesome trap #5: Your performance is under pressure

Everything about a threesome is perfect in your fantasies but in reality many things can go wrong. Maybe satisfying two women at once is too much for you or your performance will be worse than usual. Every beginning is difficult, so make sure you are ready for unpleasant things or even a complete impotence. If you are afraid that you are not up for it, it is better to cancel it than make a complete fool of yourself.

Of course there is also a possibility that a threesome will be an unforgettable experience for you. We hope we didn`t scare you, but we only want you to know what you are getting yourself into. Try to predict every potentially unpleasant situation, because playing with feelings of all involved is not as innocent as you might think.