Every particle is destined to move in with the pace of vibes which it surrounds itself in.
As clear from the title, ordinary lives are just an addition to the heavy bulk of what all the people on this planet are doing.
So, do something which makes you to stand out of the crowd and shows you off as a person less ordinary.
Doing this is really very simple and is the basic function of having a very healthy life and that is “meditation- done regularly”. It is well said by his holiness Shri Shri Ravishankar Ji that meditating daily will help your innersoles to grow and at very balanced pace.
And what else will you need when you'll be healthy from inner-self and happy from the body. People are just running in the race of life without even knowing their ultimate goal to be achieved.
Realising the importance of oneself is very important in achieving the ultimate sophistication because this is the only one thing which will last forever till you'll be alive.
Learn to live self-dependently so that you can learn to be independent of the world for you inner needs and self-satisfaction.