You can't solve all your kids' problems. You must make space for children to make mistakes and learn from their problems. Try to teach them not to repeat the same mistakes, but remember, you can't insist on them making no mistakes.
Be caring and attentive but that does not mean that you become a helicopter parent who keeps tabs on every little aspect of their child's life. Also if you are always there to help, a child becomes over-dependent and gives up easily.
Too much attention is bad, but paying too little attention is equally bad, if not worse. Today's parents are busy with their work, not to mention social media, TV, and mobile phones taking up their time. But neglect can scar a child.
Having unrealistic expectations from your child will only harm them. They will feel pressured and might not confide in you if they face issues. It can affect their confidence and disturb their mental health.
This is one of the worst things you can do to your child. If you keep comparing them to their friends, worse siblings, this can badly affect their self-esteem and make them resentful of not just you, but the other kids you are comparing them with.
'If you do this, I will give you that' - this attitude must be avoided. This will only teach them not to take responsibility and accept the consequences of their mistakes. They will learn that they can get away by bribing.
You want the best for your child and you might want them to gain or lose weight to be healthy. But there should be a sensitive way of telling them, instead of making them ashamed of their bodies.
It's natural to want to protect your child from every small problem but you also know that's not how the world works. Children must learn how to resolve conflicts and how to deal with situations and persons. Of course, you have to consider a child's age to determine how much they can handle by themselves.
You might have wanted to study abroad but circumstances did not allow it. Now you want your child to have the experience that you missed out on. Only, your child may not share your dreams at all. Don't force your dreams on your children and allow them to make their own choice.
This a problem many modern parents face. While you should be friendly with your child and inspire confidence, remember you are their parent. You need to be strict, say no when required and protect your kids. Children need familiarity, rules and structure even if they say otherwise.