Responsibility means responding to the situation to the best of your ability.
Realize that the other person is not you. They are different, and you must respect their individuality.
You can either be a victim of the world or an adventurer in search of treasure. It all depends on how you see your life.
If you resist change, you resist life itself.
The more you become love, the less you are concerned about what you get. The joy of giving becomes all-important.
When you truly care for someone, you will naturally enhance their life, not seek to control it.
Love is not about getting what you want. Love is about giving what you have.