Giving age-appropriate choices helps kids feel capable and trusted. Even small decisions, like choosing their clothes or snack, can boost confidence.
Praise hard work, persistence, and progress—not just winning or being the best. This teaches kids that effort is valuable, even if the outcome isn’t perfect.
Let your child take on tasks by themselves, such as packing their school bag or helping with simple chores. Success in small tasks builds trust in their abilities.
Teach your child that it’s okay to fail and that mistakes are a part of learning. This builds resilience and reduces fear of trying.
Help your child explore activities they enjoy. Mastering a skill or hobby they love gives them a strong sense of pride and competence.
Be specific in your compliments: instead of saying “You’re so smart,” say “You did a great job figuring that puzzle out!” This reinforces confidence in their actions, not just identity.
Children often imitate adults. Demonstrate positive self-talk and a confident attitude when facing challenges yourself.