10 Mistakes to Avoid on a First Date

The first impression need not always be the last impression, but when it comes to dating, you don't want to begin at the wrong end. So avoid these 10 things.

Zee Media Bureau
Feb 17, 2023

Keep Checking Your Phone

This is a big turn-off. This will indicate that you are more interested in what's happening in your social media network than your date.

Badmouth Your Ex

It will do you no good if you keep harping on how awful your ex was. It shows you are not over them yet. Solely blaming your ex-partner for a failed relationship is simply uncool.

Ignore Personal Hygiene

You need not spend a bomb on clothes or grooming, but first impressions are key. Shower, brush your teeth, shave, wear a perfume or deo - ensure you are well groomed.

Forget Your Manners

Eat with your mouth closed, pay attention to your date, and be polite to staffers at the cafe or restro you are hanging out in - in short, don't be mannerless.

Get Drunk

While you can enjoy a drink, getting drunk on your first date is a major red flag that will only egg the other person to steer clear of you.

Keep Swearing

You may or may not know your date from before, but even if you do, remember it's your first date. Swearing can make them uncomfortable and they might forge a wrong impression.

Talk About Salary

Another big red flag! Do not ask them about their salaries, while at the same time, refrain from saying how much you earn. This is not a first-date conversation.

Talk About Marriage, Kids

Like salary, talking about marriage and children on the very first date can be disastrous. It can get awkward and scare off the other person.

Offer Unsolicited Advice

This is just your first date. You don't need to give them life lessons and 'gyan'. It can come off as condescending and is a big red flag.

Turn Up Late

It's bad manners to make people wait and if it's your first date, this can give wrong impressions. If there's a genuine excuse, call them up and explain the situation.

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