Nicole Kidman `laying low` to avoid TomKat split questions

London: Nicole Kidman is even avoiding her friends so as to not talk of her former husband Tom Cruise’s split with Katie Holmes.

While most scorned exes will take any opportunity to slam their former flame, Kidman continued to remain tight-lipped about Cruise and Holmes divorce. Sources told FOX411’s Pop Tarts column that the 45-year-old actress, who had been married to Cruise for nearly 10 years before the actor filed for divorce and famously took their two children with him in the breakup, refused to get involved in the divorce drama and is even going to the lengths of avoiding her pals, Radar Online reported. “Nicole won’t talk, wants her privacy, wants to be left out of this and they (she and Cruise) don’t speak much. Communication between her and Tom is very limited,” a source said. The actress, who was stunned when Cruise filed for divorce in 2001 – only two months after they had renewed their vows and shortly after Kidman had reportedly miscarried their child – has kept a very low profile since Holmes filed for divorce from Cruise last week. “Nicole really does not want to be dragged into this or say anything to anyone. At some point though, she will probably be forced to say something, and she will most likely support Tom for the sake of their children,” the source said. According to a shocking new report, after the dissolution of their marriage, members of the Church of Scientology had turned the couple children Isabella and Connor Cruise against Kidman, calling her a “sociopath” and the actress had only recently reunited with her adopted daughter. “I love mom. She’s my mom. She’s great. I see her sometimes [in Nashville] and I speak to her,” Isabella recently told Australia’s New Idea magazine. Days after Holmes filed for divorce on June 29, Cruise hired Dennis Wasser, the same lawyer who represented him for his divorce from Kidman. ANI