Inspire, Don`t Command: The Power of Influencing Others

In our everyday lives, whether at work, with friends or at home, we often need to guide or lead others. It might seem easier to just give orders and expect people to follow them, but real power comes from inspiring others instead of commanding them. When you inspire people, you create a more positive, cooperative and motivated surrounding.

Have you ever felt like you are constantly complaining people to get things done? May be you are a parent, manager or someone who wants to get their things done through them or to see their ideas come to life. The truth is that the harsh barking orders can rarely bring changes or enthusiastic participation. Instead of this, inspire people to get their side.

Just think about it once, you get inspire from those who is something big or may something bigger they have. They spark your curiosity and enlighten your passion. If you really want to inspire others then be the change. People are more likely to follow those whom they believe. Adopt those qualities which you want to see in others.

Don’t just make story of your aim in front of others, tell people why your aim actually matters. Explain them how everybody’s contribution fits in fulfilling their aim. Listen other people’s perspective too, so that you are able to understand different perspectives and point of views. Because of this they feel heard and valued and may they get more open to your ideas.

Give others freedom to work according to them, also provide your trust to them so that they can freely showcases their creativity. Offer them support and guidance but don’t control them. Try to be a little bit appreciative, recognize their efforts and appreciate them. A little praise has to power to raise their motivation.

By inspiring others, you create a positive and collaborative environment. Inspiring is a powerful approach rather than influencing others because it builds trust and encourages creativity. Embracing this approach you can motivate those who is present around you. If people will inspire from you then automatically they can work according to you but if you command them they may not perform well.