I wasn`t a victim in my marriage with Ashley: Cheryl Cole

London: Newly married pop star Cheryl Cole has revealed that she was not a victim during her marriage to footballer Ashley.

The 31-year-old singer married Ashley in 2006 after two years of dating, but split in 2010 following accusations that the footballer had cheated on her, reportedly. "You know what I also realised these past years? I refuse to let somebody else`s behaviour change me fundamentally. I`m going to remain the person I am, with the values and beliefs that I had. "There was no horribleness, apart from what happened at the end. My marriage wasn`t bad. I wasn`t treated badly. I wasn`t a victim. We weren`t arguing. Nothing like that. It was just weakness on his behalf, which is unfortunate, but it happens," she said. The `X Factor` judge recently married her boyfriend of three months Jean-Bernard Fernandez-Versini on Mustique`s Macaroni Beach.