Love At First Sight? Tips On Creating A Good First Impression For Long-Lasting Relationships

We know why friends advise against making snap judgements about someone based only on how they look. Here are clear and real reasons why first impressions are important for healthy and long-lasting relationships.

First impressions often develop instantly and without conscious thought/ pic courtesy: freepik

When you first meet someone, you can't tell if they'll be a passing acquaintance or someone who will have a significant influence on your life. The way you see this individual and whether you want to get to know them better may depend on a variety of things.

A recent study published in the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences on romantic first impressions from the University of California, Davis, found that first impressions tend to linger, shaping whether people desired further contact with potential romantic partners after an initial meeting. 

Do First Impressions Matter In A Relationship?

Relationships may be impacted by first impressions. Be it at work, at an interview, in school, and of course in our romantic relationships. You exert all of your effort to project a professional and polished image during the job interview. Additionally, you want to look your best on a date because you want to create a good first impression.

How Are First Impressions Formed?

First impressions often develop instantly and without conscious thought. Although they may not be aware of it, they constantly monitor their inner judge of character, picking up on cues and developing impressions of strangers. 

There is also a tendency to generate favourable impressions of folks who have something in common with each other. People may become close friends because of their common interests in music or movies, similar fashion sense, or another characteristic.

Tips to Leave A Good First Impression

Keep it real

To be accepted, you don't have to be flawless. Simply be yourself and let them see who you are. It's not enough to deceive others when you pretend to be someone you're not. Furthermore, you're deceiving yourself in the process.

Smile please!

No matter how worn out you are, a small smile won't be too much to give. Giving someone you just met that warm grin might make the situation more enjoyable. Break the ice with an outstanding smile, whether it's for a date or an interview.

Be presentable

Dress comfortably and appropriately. Believe it or not, other people will notice if you don't feel comfortable with what you're wearing. 

Be on time

Since being late is a major turnoff. Because of this, most dates where one person is late don't continue to a second one.

Stay optimistic

Perhaps you've already interacted with the person. Show them your strengths instead of your weaknesses. Talk about good things when on a date rather than whine about how your day was!

First impressions do matter and you may not be aware of it, but it’s the foundation of every long-lasting relationship in your life.

(This article is meant for informational purposes only and must not be considered a substitute for advice provided by qualified professionals.)